Personal Stories

I Love Pole Because...

Personal stories from real people just like you!

Arania mid-pose on the pole in Las Vegas

Arania Lamb

I am 25 - from Las Vegas, NV.

“Pole gives me LIFE!!!”

I have been doing pole fitness on and off two years. I was interested in being a dancer, but over the time I've continued doing pole fitness for the growth that I've seen in myself. I feel that I have a calling for pole! Pole gives me LIFE!!!

Cody holding a strength pose on the pole

Cody Nicholson

I am 26 - from Pittsburgh, PA.

“There is no better feeling I have experienced yet in my life.”

I started poling 2.5 years ago when a divine series of fate led me to a free pole class on a whim. I knew immediately that pole was then going to be a major part of my life.

Pole dance…

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…has given me an outlet for physical and emotional expression that I couldn't even find in music performance, an area to which I dedicated over 14 years of my life. When I go into the studio, nothing can get me. I will only fly, in many shapes and ways, until I DECIDE I am done flying. There is no better feeling I have experienced yet in my life.

Marguerite spinning on the pole

Marguerite Hughes

I am 59 - from Ramona, CA.

“I love doing spins and conquering a new trick.”

I have been pole dancing for about 3 years. Pole dancing is sooo much fun! I love doing spins and conquering a new trick. It can be hard and scary but once I nail it, I feel a huge sense…

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…of accomplishment. Pole dancing has greatly increased my upper body strength. I also love the camaraderie and support of the pole dance community! I have many great friends because of pole dancing. And how can a woman not feel sexy wearing 6 inch heels and spinning around a pole?

Boris performing at Pole Expo in Las Vegas

Boris Kynonesz

Pole makes me feel 21 - from Mexico City.

“I have no words to describe what I feel when I'm on the Pole; I just feel alive!”

I have been pole dancing for 6 years. Never liked any exercise, but I love what my body is capable of doing, and I also love the human shape. Pole was challenging and I discovered that my body was able…

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…to make beautiful shapes, and I instantly fell in love. I have no words to describe what I feel when I'm on the Pole; I just feel alive!

Khristen holding a butterfly pose on the pole

Khristen Pahler

“Pole dancing is for every man and woman, young and old, size and shape, dancer, non-dancer.”

I love pole dancing because it gives me freedom. Freedom to peel off those outer layers, to feel like a strong and sexy woman without being objectified and to be creative and confident in my own skin and movement.

I'm…

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…a mother of 2 teenage daughters. They dance and choreograph performance pieces with me and they travel to pole shows, competitions and conventions. As they join me in dancing I see their confidence grow. I see their acceptance of all body types and encouragement of others. My heart is so happy as they proudly tell others that their mother is a pole dancer and that they should watch her perform.

Pole dancing is for every man and woman, young and old, size and shape, dancer, non-dancer.

Wendy posing on the pole in Anchorage, Alaska

Wendy Sellers

I am 48 - from Anchorage, AK.

“I love the challenge of the pole!”

I love the challenge of the pole! It is a perfect exercise for women who are 40+. It builds strength! I've never been challenged in any form of exercise as I am with the pole, and I do love a…

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…challenge! Another thing I discuss and fix with my patients is their passion. When we find our fire or passion, life is so much sweeter.

Mary, 71, up on the pole mid-move

Mary Bendsen

I am 71 - from Victoria, B.C..

“I love pole dancing because of the great fitness training and the many laughs that come with it!”

I have been taking pole classes for one year. I love pole dancing because of the great fitness training and the many laughs that come with it!

Miscia doing a split on the pole

Miscia

“Pole helped me find happiness within myself.”

My name is Miscia, I've been poling for about 2.5 years. What started as something I did on-and-off while working 100-hour weeks climbing the corporate ladder soon became an obsession and eventually contributed to my decision to switch careers to…

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…dedicate more time to training.

Most importantly, pole helped me find happiness within myself by teaching me to appreciate my body for its abilities rather than its appearance - and I'd love nothing more than to share this sentiment with other men and women in this age of photo-shopped perfection.

Trixie performing an iguana pose on the pole

Trixie Lovett

“I love pole simply because I love the way it makes me feel.”

I love pole simply because I love the way it makes me feel. The health benefits are plentiful. But it is the benefit to my mind and spirit that keep me poling. The satisfaction I get when I am in…

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…a classroom of students who are open-minded and eager to learn is unparalleled. The joy I feel when a student accomplishes a move they have been challenged by makes my heart sing. The pride that blooms inside me when I watch a student recital, or a student compete on the circuit fills me.

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